The reality is, Paul’s declaration about love in the above scripture is so right. Not to mention, so hard. Living the Gospel of love is the most challenging simple thing Jesus call’s us to do. Sure we know how to love as a mom. But what about the “never gives up, doesn’t fly off the handle, trusts God always” disclaimers? Aren’t there some days you’d rather add ish to each sentiment? You know, moments when you feel steadfastish, calmish, faithfulish? Does close enough count in the parenting department? Yes, please?

Well, all I can say is some days close enough is pure gold in my mothering realm. I love wide, long, high, and deep…but sometimes loud, cranky, and emotionally wonky as well. How about you?

  1. What is aching in your mom heart these days?
  2. Where do you need encouragement?
  3. How can I serve you well and love you forward?

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Praying you forward!

A self-described “sappy soul whisperer and sarcasm aficionado,” Shelby is a wife of 25 years, mom of three 20-something kiddos. She has a deep love for Jesus and storytelling, and most days she muses in rhetorical wonder over what God was thinking when He put her in charge of three humans. Although God’s quick to remind her how capable she is, apparently He sometimes does so while crossing His fingers behind His back. You can read her stories around the web and in print at Guideposts.